How to Chat: Online Edition

So, you have been to a few chat rooms and dating sites and managed to talk to some people.

Well, if you want them to get interested in you, then you need to be careful of the big DO NOTS

when chatting with them. It is very easy to get anyone to lose interest if you aren't careful.

Number 1:

Never ask a person how many dates they have been on, period.  What matters is if you are compatiable with the other person.  Don't worry yourself too much, take a step back form the computer from time to time to get some air and relieve some stress. 

Number 2:

If you get a number, don't wait a week to call but also don't call right when you get it.  Wait until the next day when you have a block of free time to chat for a while.  You want to be able to keep some of the energy you had from your previous conversation but you also don't want to come off too clingy or desperate.

Number 3:

Don't every write an email to somebody you have been talking with also if they have got the previous email or asking them why they have not responded to your previous email.  Besides being bad mannered this behavior comes off really desperate.  If the other party is into you they will respond, if they are not then it's probably just best to move on.

Number 4:

This one is for the men out there and should be an obvious one.  Don't ever ask a girl how much she weighs, her body shape, if she is flexible or anything along these lines.  This is a sure sign to the girl on the other end that your only interest is to get into their underwear, and not in a good way.  It is better to talk to the girl for a while (I don't mean 5 minutes) and get to know her.  When she feels comfortable with you then you can ask for the bikini picture.

Number 5:

Don't talk about sex.  At least not until you really know the person on the other side.  This works on the same principle as number 4, you don't want to send off bad vibes.  Make sure to talk with the person for a while before you get into the kink talk otherwise you are more often then not going to drive the other person away.

Number 6:

Last but definitely not least.  Make sure you engage the other person with the conversation.  While it is nice to let people know about yourself it is just as nice if not nicer to ask people about themselves.  Make sure the conversation is going both ways otherwise the other person is going to get bored and leave.  A good tip that I like to use is make a statement or ask a question and wait for the person to respond.  Do not cut the other person off, this will surely make them angry.

That's all that I have for today. Please comment and share your advice if you like.

Stay tuned for my next post.

Thanks :)